Another layer to Shen Wei's DNW regarding Zhao Yunlan's performative flirting. :-)

Yes, exactly! :D

I just happened to be looking at this and suddenly went, huh. I wonder if that feeds into how Shen Wei keeps his secrets from Zhao Yunlan. That is, he hides info but he's very upfront about his emotions, because he really doesn't want to gaslight Zhao Yunlan. (And this is why some people read it as being bad at lying?) Maybe?