especially after episode 23 anything that hurts Shen Wei is going to be a serious no
I agree completely.
And yes, I could see the blindfolds! They might well both enjoy that a lot. :-)
Shen Wei's kink is Kunlun/Zhao Yunlan.
YES to all of this! That's exactly how I see it, too. He wants to bask in Zhao Yunlan seeing him for who he truly is, and loving him for it, and being as close as possible in every possible way.
Zhao Yunlan is very careful not to push Shen Wei, I think, because he respects Shen Wei's boundaries and issues. I see that in canon in a lot of non-sexual ways, and I think it carries over.
And since Zhao Yunlan knows that Shen Wei sees himself and his wishes and needs as unimportant in some very deeply ingrained ways, I see him as trying to build Shen Wei up and teach him that it really *does* matter in the sexual realm, too. (NO, Shen Wei, not just because Zhao Yunlan enjoys himself more when he knows you *like* being covered in raw eggs, but because you should be enjoying yourself for your own sake. :-) )
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I agree completely.
And yes, I could see the blindfolds! They might well both enjoy that a lot. :-)
Shen Wei's kink is Kunlun/Zhao Yunlan.
YES to all of this! That's exactly how I see it, too. He wants to bask in Zhao Yunlan seeing him for who he truly is, and loving him for it, and being as close as possible in every possible way.
Zhao Yunlan is very careful not to push Shen Wei, I think, because he respects Shen Wei's boundaries and issues. I see that in canon in a lot of non-sexual ways, and I think it carries over.
And since Zhao Yunlan knows that Shen Wei sees himself and his wishes and needs as unimportant in some very deeply ingrained ways, I see him as trying to build Shen Wei up and teach him that it really *does* matter in the sexual realm, too. (NO, Shen Wei, not just because Zhao Yunlan enjoys himself more when he knows you *like* being covered in raw eggs, but because you should be enjoying yourself for your own sake. :-) )