Oh, I see what you mean! I think this exact thing probably doesn't happen indeed (though I obviously may be forgetting something). I was thinking 'anything where the hurt person says it's nbd but gets treated as if it is a big deal', and I would definitely put 'feeding someone' and 'being furious at someone for hurting themselves' in this category. But in doesn't fit in the more narrow/more verbal category, I can definitely see that!