Re Da Ji, yeah, she needs a bigger field of focus that just Da Qing (especially since he's not into her) and true love.

Yeah, this is really it, she's so focused on finding love (and looking for it in all the wrong places), she's kind of stuck. To get some character development, she'd need to get over that.

And I would be all for Da Qing and other cats! I think he'd like to have some around, just not, you know, clingy. *g*