Thanks for the nice words! "What a speech" just about covers it, doesn't it--it's like a distillation of everything in Zhao Yunlan's personality into five or ten minutes of carefully chosen oratory.

And I'm gonna say the "Don't bother" was Dad. Just because.
Agree ;)

It is all the same restroom, isn't it? Or there might be one more--is the one where Xiao Guo gets serially menaced by Zhu Jiu and then Ye Zun a different one? (Poor Xiao Guo, it's amazing he doesn't end up with a complex.)