I think that's definitely a valid interpretation, and I do think canon is deliberately ambiguous on him, and on how functional their relationship was, and whether it could have worked out under different circumstances. But I also think he was given zero time to process the existence of mirror dimensions and doppelgangers and the whole Weiwei switcheroo, so a bad initial reaction is understandable.

Personally I like to think that once he understood where she was coming from and who she really was, he could have loved her as she was, and things could have worked out.